I believe that strong friendships/relationships depend much on growing/evolving with the other person. Being reasonably intuned and in touch with the goings-ons, changes and developments in the other person’s life, largely impact how effective we are in showing up and being available in the ways that matter to them.

It’s understandable that we all have various responsibilities, challenges and obligations.. that’s life. That being said, when it comes to the relationships that really matter, I believe that effort to be and remain connected isn’t optional.

These musings came to mind when someone expressed to me that they felt a disconnect between us and didn’t know why. I was able to think of many reasons, but it wasn’t the time to speak on it. 😉

HS, as indicated on the title page of my blog,  has turned me into an altered version of a me that I never knew. 27 is a relatively young age to have your life hijacked by chronic disease, particularly one like HS that has turned my entire life upside down. I remain close to those that have in one way or another been connected and aware of who I am now. I also to the best of my ability, work to make sure that I don’t allow this ugly, life impacting disease to be an excuse for not being present and available for the important people in my life. Prayerfully I can remain consistent in this regard.🙏🏾